When Things Get Heavy

One of my biggest flaws is not paying enough attention to detail (always has been) but I’m working hard to make sure it will not always be. I’m learning life is easier when we stop running away from our personal flaws.. or even worse, ignoring them. I’m not saying I accept the fact that I drove to Idaho this morning because I missed the exit I take to get home on a regular basis (too much on my mind + Romans neat perma-meow/panting the whole way home didn’t help)… Alls I’m sayin’ is I’m not going to beat myself into the ground because of it  (route B was much prettier anyway) My point is that mistakes do not erase our self-worth, they teach us lifelong lessons that increase it bit by bit. This is, of course, as long as we choose to learn from the bumps in the road instead of letting them throw us off track.

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I guess what I’m trying to say is a little bird is telling me one of you may need to be reminded that you’re incredible, and you probably don’t even know it. Be soft with yourself, sweets. You’re just learning and the books only get heavier from here. Get some reading glasses that you feel like a babe in & get to studying, darlin. It’s a long, windy, beautiful & sometimes ugly road ahead. (Don’t tell your mum I said this) but sometimes I get so busy keeping my heart active that I forget to use my brain — and I don’t see a damn thing wrong with that.

Sleepy Head + a Clear Mind

I love, love, love Dalai Lama. He is the 14th Dalai Lama of Tibet & a truly incredible man whose wisdom has guided me back to the right track many times in my life. This whole back & forth situation is really taking a toll on my emotional well-being, so I’m trying to fill myself up with his beautiful lessons. I went to bed at 10:30 last night, but somehow I’m still tired & suffering from sudden short-term memory loss. Think of a cranky 3-year-old in an already-sassy 20 something’s body. Not cool, yo. Not cool at all..

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You know, this little quote is about all I need right now. Oh, that’s a lie. I could really go for a fried PB&J (nom, nom, nom) All my sleepy headed-ness & ready-to-be-clear-mind, Bee

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For more of Dalai Lama’s teachings go to his official site by clicking here 

How to Sparkle: key #Pick3812One249

I just finished a fabulous evening of hairapy, squawking, Oreo eating & clothes swapping with the incredible Kerry Flegal. (Hi, I’m spoiled. but grateful)

As I’ve grown my style has shifted with me, but I have never forgotten the power of a quality hairstylist. And that somehow, they pass that power on to you when you get out of their chair.

We’ve all got it in us to conquer our “can’ts” in order to turn our dreams into reality. I believe a beautiful, classy, and fierce look adds the sparkle that helps light the difficult roads we all find ourselves at during the journey to do so.

I never tried to find my Christmas presents when I was wee because I love the thrill a surprise provides. So naturally, I wait to look at my hair until it’s perfected when I’m at hairapy with my lifesaving hairapist.

After hours of detailed work, each strand was perfectly aligned with the other. The colors melted together so beautifully you’d hardly believe the art was created by anything but hot days in the ocean near the sun..

I looked at myself in the mirror and said “I’m ready to conquer the world.

The best part is, I meant it.

All my love, Sparkling-Bee